Thursday, January 24, 2008
Little lesson in life: Decision Making
In life, there is no such thing as being right or wrong.
At times, you are bound to trip over some pebbles or even get hit by huge rocks and fall offside, and that's when you will learn yet another lesson when you climb up from that fall.
Nothing is ever perfect for any single soul on earth.
And true enough, like what my lecturer had told me, one is not able to escape from something known as "decision making". As you get older, the more you will have to decide and make your own decision. Then from this point onwards, this is where YOUR decision is going to lead YOU to YOUR future.
Decision making sure is hard:
1. IF one makes the wrong decision, one should be flexible enough and turn back soon...
(else you will reach the extend of regretting, should you not do so)
OR
2. IF one happens to make the right decision, one is going to make the best of it.
But whichever decision you make, you will still be able to work a way round it should you just BELIEVE in yourself. Just like the saying goes: "Nothing is Impossible".
Decision making often results oneself to be in a dilemma. And this, will be the toughest part in the whole decision making process. That's when your mind will be filled with questions like:
"If I were to choose this, then......",
"But what if I were to do this?",
"What will happen to me if......?",
"Should it be this or should it be that?", and etc.
It will tend to bring headaches should you keep dwelling on those questions which you are trying to get an answer from yourself. Instead, you should just keep moving forward!
Perhaps one should get advices from friends, relatives, lecturers... But keep in mind that they are there only to give you their own opinion, and that they are not able to make the decision for you.
So at the end of the day, you will still be the one and only who could answer to yourself, to your own life. You are the only one who is responsible for yourself, and not anyone else.
Wishing you all the best in your life with all the wonderful decision makings~
Cheers!
At times, you are bound to trip over some pebbles or even get hit by huge rocks and fall offside, and that's when you will learn yet another lesson when you climb up from that fall.
Nothing is ever perfect for any single soul on earth.
And true enough, like what my lecturer had told me, one is not able to escape from something known as "decision making". As you get older, the more you will have to decide and make your own decision. Then from this point onwards, this is where YOUR decision is going to lead YOU to YOUR future.
Decision making sure is hard:
1. IF one makes the wrong decision, one should be flexible enough and turn back soon...
(else you will reach the extend of regretting, should you not do so)
OR
2. IF one happens to make the right decision, one is going to make the best of it.
But whichever decision you make, you will still be able to work a way round it should you just BELIEVE in yourself. Just like the saying goes: "Nothing is Impossible".
Decision making often results oneself to be in a dilemma. And this, will be the toughest part in the whole decision making process. That's when your mind will be filled with questions like:
"If I were to choose this, then......",
"But what if I were to do this?",
"What will happen to me if......?",
"Should it be this or should it be that?", and etc.
It will tend to bring headaches should you keep dwelling on those questions which you are trying to get an answer from yourself. Instead, you should just keep moving forward!
Perhaps one should get advices from friends, relatives, lecturers... But keep in mind that they are there only to give you their own opinion, and that they are not able to make the decision for you.
So at the end of the day, you will still be the one and only who could answer to yourself, to your own life. You are the only one who is responsible for yourself, and not anyone else.
Wishing you all the best in your life with all the wonderful decision makings~
Cheers!
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